The Real Reason You Can't Stick to One Thing

Episode Summary
If your business “works” on paper but you feel bored, restless, or low-key miserable inside it… you’re going to feel very seen in this one. In this episode of 17 Minutes, Robyn talks about a piece of her behavioral wiring that changed everything: her builder / rocket-launch energy. She shares how selling a multi six-figure event planning business (and walking away from other successful things) wasn’t self-sabotage, but a clue that she’s built to build, not babysit. You’ll hear how to tell if you’re a builder or a maintainer, why trying to force yourself into someone else’s version of “consistency” kills your creativity, and how to design a business that actually challenges and energizes you in 2026 instead of making you want to burn it all down every 18 months.

In this episode, we dive into:

  • Why a “working” business can still feel wrong in your body

  • The difference between builders, creatives, and maintainers in business

  • Robyn’s story of starting and closing multiple successful businesses (and why it wasn’t self-sabotage)

  • What rocket / thrust-style energy is and how it shows up in your work

  • The four core PDP traits inside the Identity Report: dominance, extroversion, pace, and conformity

  • How high dominance + fast pace can make you crave new mountains to climb

  • Why your content, sales, and marketing go flat when you’re under-challenged

  • How to build systems that create ease and leave room for innovation and play

  • Questions to help you see if you’re a builder or a sustainer (and what you actually need next)

  • A 2026 reframe: stop obsessing over your “weaknesses” and go all in on your strengths

Chapters
00:01 — The intro: who this episode is really for (bored builders, restless creatives)
02:19 — Why the high is in the creative process (and what happens when it disappears)
04:43 — Selling a multi six-figure business + realizing you’re not “broken,” you’re a builder
07:09 — How behavioral wiring (and the Identity Report) finally made it all make sense
09:27 — High dominance, fast pace, and the “climb the mountain then get restless” pattern
11:54 — Designing a business that lets your wiring thrive instead of forcing you to be someone else
14:11 — Are you performing a version of success you think you should want?
16:37 — Keeping your business alive, creative, and challenging without burning it down
18:58 — Builder vs. maintainer: questions to understand how you like to move
21:26 — 2026 intention: double down on strengths, release the fixation on your flaws
23:48 — What becomes possible when you stop trying to fix yourself and start leveraging yourself
26:05 — How the Identity Report + 1:1 work can support your most aligned year yet

Links
Get your behavioral Identity Report → https://www.robynsavage.com/the-identity-report 

Work with Robyn → https://www.robynsavage.com/services 

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/robyn_savage